Anger is a normal and natural properties owned by everyone but it would be much better if we are able to control our anger in appropriate siatuasi. Able to control emotions, people often underestimate the problem. In fact, intelligence alone is not enough to deliver one to achieve success.
In 1990, Emotional Intelligence (also known as "EQ"), introduced through the world market. It states that a person's ability to cope and use emotions appropriately in every form of interaction is more needed than intelligence (IQ) person. Now, let's see, how emotions can alter all the limitations into something extraordinary
A rich millionaire in the United States, Donald Trump, is a neat example of this. In the years 1980 to 1990, Trump is known as a real estate entrepreneur quite successful, with a trump wealth estimated at one billion U.S. dollars. Two books were written at the height of his career successfully trump, namely "The Art of The Deal and Surviving at the Top". But the path trodden by Trump is not always smooth ...
You know the depression that swept the world in late 1990? At that time the property stock price dropped dramatically, too. Until overnight, Trump's life became very opposite. Trump is highly dependent on business property should bear the debt amounted to 900 million U.S. Dollar! Even the World Bank is predicting bankruptcy trump. Some friends trump who suffered a similar fate to think that this is the end of their lives, to actually end his life by committing suicide.
Here the emotional intelligence Trump really tested. How not, when the trump expect sympathy from his ex-wife, he actually asked to give all the remaining property as compensation they divorce. People who are considered as a close friend left trump trump granted. The reason is very supportive for Trump to despair and give up on life. But it is not done trump. Trump would consider that this opportunity to work and change things.
Although financially trump had lost everything, but there are "intangible assets" are still owned trump.
Yes, Trump has the experience and strong business understanding, which is far more valuable than all the wealth that ever existed! What happens next? Fantastic, six months later, Trump has managed to make the biggest deal in history trump business. Three years later, Trump could get a profit of U.S. $ 3 Billion. He also managed to write back new book donald trump, titled "The Art of The Comeback. "
In this book tells how the bankruptcy of Trump's hit trump trump even make wiser, stronger and focused than ever before. Trump even think, if the accident did not happen, then the trump will never know true friend will trump and no trump make richer than any previous. Extraordinary is not it.
Emotional intelligence gives a person courage to rise from failure, also brings power to someone to dare to face the fear. Not as well as intelligence or IQ, emotional intelligence is present
on each person and can be developed.
Here are some tips on how to hone emotional intelligence:
Still life with courage. Exercise and dare to try new things will give you different experiences and opening minds to other possibilities in life.
Always responsible in all respects. This will be a way to get the trust of others and controlling us not give up easily. "being accountable is being dependable"
Venture out of comfort zone. Trying to get out of your comfort zone will make us able to explore many things.
Recognizing the fear and try to deal with it. Doing this will build self-confidence and can be guaranteed that everything there must be a solution.
Be humble. Willing to admit mistakes in life can actually enhance our self-esteem.
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